First thoughts

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Hi,

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Today I was talking with a lady I met in the street, and I commented that she must have been partying on with a vengeance, as she looked somewhat tired.
She then told me that she had been visited the previous evening by a friend, who had turned up unexpectedly, accompanied by a nice bottle of decent white wine.

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They had spent the evening talking, and the friend left quite late after saying that she had enjoyed the evening immensely and always felt so much better for seeing her again.
This all sounds wonderful except for a not so desirable side effect.

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The lady who had been visited said she was left feeling completely drained and low and had ended up crawling off to her bed.
I asked if she had noticed this effect before, when she spent time with that particular person, and the answer was a rather puzzled “Yes”

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Do you know someone yourself, who makes your heart sink when you see them coming, because every time you are near to them you are left feeling that the sky is a little less blue, and your pleasure in the day has gone awry.

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Have all your exciting plans for the day dried up and left you feeling that you may as well just go home and kill yourself.

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Do they touch you as you are talking to them.

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Do they brighten up and tell you that they love talking to you because you always cheer them up?

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Of course they do.

Anyone with dim energy would feel much better if they had just had an injection of life force.

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The only problem is that you need all your own energy to be in balance for who you are, and you cannot afford to be having it drained away by people who are unconsciously pulling it away from you.

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These people are energy vampires and you must watch out for them.
Don’t misunderstand me, these are not bad people, they would not knowingly do this.

They are just naturally drawn to a person with very strong life force where they can warm themselves, as if beside a fire, drawing in heat and comfort.

In future when you see the person approaching, you must firmly say to yourself that you are not going to give away energy to this person, it is your energy and you are going to keep it.

You may find that after being with you for a while the person will look a little concerned, and ask you if you are feeling O.K, because you seem a bit off, or different, or even ill or tired.

This is because, on some level, they are aware that they themselves are not getting their usual charge of energy from you, and are therefore not feeling a betterment.

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It is a shame for them, but it is better than you feeling depleted, and them not ever learning the ways in which it is possible to raise their own levels of vital life force.

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It is also better than you eventually beginning to dislike being with them so much that you actively avoid them .

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Sometimes a person will come to realize that they have allowed themselves to be surrounded by negative people, and situations, that prevent their development,but that is a different story for a different day.

be happy.

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